When it comes to even the most widely accepted traditions–such as the Thanksgiving holiday in the United States–we may find ourselves feeling more ambivalence than comfort as the holiday (and the season it kicks off) approaches.

Articles on “examples of boundaries with family” and “phrases to set boundaries with family” abound for parents like you and me during this time of the year.

And this makes sense. Once you begin learning healthy relationship and parenting skills, the unhealthy dynamics of your family of origin (or your partner's) become rather evident–painfully so at times.

What’s a healing parent who wants to build a connected and trusting relationship with their child to do about the Santa tradition?

I’ve got you covered with everything you need to know about how to talk to your kids about Santa without lying–and what to do if you already have told a fib or two about him.

Old traditions can make us forget that we have the choice to create. What new stories are you writing for your family?